You know he is close to you
You know he wants you too
You feel him looking at you
And see him smiling when you do
You think its funny when he smirks that way
And there he simpers when you shy away
You know he is so close to you
And all you got to do is
Leave the codes
And break the rules
Before he feels off your face
But something pulls you inside
Doesn’t let things go right
Pushing your mind into a dirty fight
You finally decide to take it light
A few struggling moments go
And all times with him clouds your sight
You fight to know what is right
And end up in a fearsome plight
The step you are about to take
Might not last for – ever’s sake
But this time as you close your eyes
And take the deep breath
You know what you have to do
Get your jaws up and head lined too
Pick the phone
And place the call
Afraid not to lose this again
You just say it all…
They are fun, full of life, some miserable morons but ditch. I like them. Guys bey.
Someone told me today ‘Say good before bitching’. Doesn’t make me a adage stickler but listen to this. What I love about guys is that they do not complain and do not understand. Ok but that is not a point. Cos I dont understand them either. That doesn’t make me a boy. Does it? :p
Ok. I wrote that A-one PJ to show that I don’t know what good to write about them.
So, interestingly its been a few days that I am observing that guys are super moronic when it comes to relationships. Specially the dumped, ditched and never-had-a-gf ones. What did they say? “I want a stable relationship”
No. Am not bored of them. Its just that I came across this guy a few months back and we started dating. No. I am single. ‘we’ lasted for 22 days (incl 2 weeks of wondering about how to blurt that it wasnt working). Well that makes a different story. But yea. we started going out and he later told me that he wanted to be in a stable relationship. huh? like it will work out if you get a nice pick after a good shuffle. No offence but I was hurt. Did you ever like me? It wasn’t emotional but yes. ditch.
So again a few days after. I talked to this very cute friend (mean it :p) of mine who said that he wants to be committed. So that he is stable. wtf. You pick a pretty girl and you are not even in love with her but you decide commitment. That sucks. Big time! Well no offence again. He has a pretty gf now. But back then it was moronic.
So until recently I had not thought of posting it. why? what happened? Another friend got dumped cos he thinks the girl thinks that she hurts him. U believe that? Dont ask me. So u see he really loves her and I truly wish he is happy again. But then he said something really turn off.
Its too much now.. I can’t bear the other guy in her life. I want to be in a stable relationship.
with who?
someone…
shit. abe! anyone?? So retaliation or jealousy can get you a partner who completes the stable duo?
The discussion was long but listen to this. Relationships are like pan balances. Understanding and adaptations are relative terms. One may not comprehend my problem but may find a solution to other. You don’t get equilibrium to 1kg of peas by dropping in a handful, however big your hand might be. Some addition-substraction is required. Stable relationships take time and do not happen because you want them to. It might even turn ugly after a while.
P.S. – Today another similar guy tells me ‘would love to be in a stable- what- why that look?’ lolz :p
(An article on teenage and adult problems. The fight where who is right and who ‘wrong’)
Sneha was going to meet him at 8pm. He was her first love and first ever date! Excited and butterflies batting in her stomach, she pulled in her favourite dress and took off to her ‘so-called’ friend’s place. He was waiting for her and she felt safe. Since school she was infactuated to him and when he got word about this, he asked her out. Happy and flattered, she made her friends jealous and was now making up her mind to brag how cool it is, to be out with the most handsome and rich guy in the locality. Blame not the 15 yr old kid, but who do I blame when he took her to a place in the name of solitude, where his friends eagerly waiting for the fun, gangraped and dumped her across the streets?
Undergound teenage love affairs is not really a taboo in the present day Indian culture and neither is alcoholism, drug abuse nor premarital sex. But when these consequences end up in nightmares, severe depression and suicidal attempts, then who do we charge?
The girl? Who got hooked up with two sweet words Or the guy, who is so intoxicated by the idea of sex, alcohol and so-called ‘cool’ friends? Ok, lets grab the root. Parents?? who never talked to their children about the body-needs taking control over the rational mind?
Now, this could have saved the girl from walking straight into the guy’s arms without a second thought and the boy, a lifelong court case and a black inked crime record.
Teens need their own space and this is what their age and time demands. It is easier for them to look up and understand what their parents cannot accept. No doubt that girls have to be careful and guys saner, but first our folks have to be smarter. Most of the adults reading this would still think that modernity is yet another name to degrading culture and values. When their parents married at the age of 15 and ‘made’ family at 19, it was fair and when their children end up with pre marital sex, they are demeaned for not signing a piece of paper. Come on! They need to cater better, practical reasons to not getting their child into trouble, because we are foolishly smart and only listen to things that make sense to ‘us’.
Three decades back teenagers were no different. They too were involved in drugs, alcohol and sex. It wasn’t a hype then, because they stayed undercover and respected their culture. Now, this culture doesn’t deal with good or bad habits. It holds in behaviour, ideals and respect towards our elders, which is what we lack. When our elders, not excluding parents, try to reason us about something we tend to think we are smarter and dismiss their views.
So, is there a solution to this? Ofcourse there is and its as simple as it sounds.
Understand each other.
To the parents. Your children do not only eat, drink, study and sleep. They go out and meet people who you want them to stay away from. So, talk to them and let them know the difference between right and wrong. Questioning their thoughts won’t help.
To the children, your parents and elders are not just taller than you in height. They have this factor called ‘experience’ and know more than you do. So, behave well with them and do not bug. And yes 😉 listen, before you judge..
SHAJ 